Have you ever wanted to be extra specially generous to a client?
Have you ever had a client you wanted to be extra specially generous to? Maybe it’s someone on a fixed income, someone who’s struggling financially, or someone who really needs help. So you cut your rates, or do a lot of work you don’t normally do, or spend extra time with the client.
Don’t do it, and here’s why
My advice for you: don’t do it. Don’t be extra specially generous to clients.
Here’s why I give this advice. As a mediator, I’ve worked with people who’ve been extra specially generous to a client. Then something goes wrong, one of them sues the other, and they end up in court.
The generous person has often lost money on the project, been taken for granted by the client, or not received the generosity that they wanted to return – and now they have the extra annoyance, frustration, and energy drain of being in court. Bad feelings and resentment abound.
When I ask the generous person (in private) whether they’d do the same thing again, the answer is always a heartfelt “No!”
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